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<p>It's coming up on that time of year again, when massess of people will make promises to themselves (and occasionally to others) that they will indeed lose weight this year.&nbsp; This is the time of year when gym memberships experience tremendous growth, while those of us who work out on a regular basis begin to experience a bit of competition for the otherwise vacant elliptical trainers and treadmills.</p>
<p>The pattern is very predictable: gung-ho warriors will converge on the gym and begin running their guts out.&nbsp; Some of them will even modify their diets - often to the point of starving themselves - as a&nbsp;means of demonstrating just how serious they are about this commitment.&nbsp;&nbsp;This spastic flurry will&nbsp;last for anywhere from 2 to 4 weeks, depending on the intestinal fortitude of the individual involved, before diets and activity levels&nbsp;return to their pre-new year state.</p>
<p>The problem with New Year's Resolutions is that the primary reason we make them is out of a sense of tradition - everyone (it seems) makes some sort of resolution at the turn of the calendar.&nbsp; There is no visceral reason involved in merely saying "This year I resolve to lose weight," and the result is often a failure of commitment within a month of starting.</p>
<p>The logical question is this: "How do I commit to my resolution to trim the fat?"&nbsp; Here are a few suggestions that will make success more likely:</p>
<p><strong>1)&nbsp;Understand Why You Want to Change</strong></p>
<p>Without a goal, there's no commitment.&nbsp; A resolution isn't the same as setting a goal since a resolution is only a half-hearted promise to yourself to "<a href="http://weightingon40.squarespace.com/do-you-really-want-to-lose/">lose weight</a>."&nbsp; In order to be successful, you have to seriously decide why it is important for you to be in better shape.&nbsp; No one can give you that reason; it has to come from within.&nbsp; Sit down right now with a piece of blank paper and begin to make a list of all the reasons why you want to make a change for better health.&nbsp; Keep writing reasons until you list one that just makes you want to cry.&nbsp; Once you've reached that point, you have a reason to change that is visceral, relevant, and unforgettable.&nbsp; Single that reason out - write it on a piece of paper and post it on your mirror.&nbsp; Carry another copy in your pocket so that any time you're tempted to stray from your&nbsp;fat-reduction eating schedule you can read it and remind yourself why you're making this commitment.&nbsp; Unless you have a reason (and are constantly reminded of it) the&nbsp;likelihood of quitting is too real.</p>
<p><strong>2) Partner Up!</strong></p>
<p>The truth of the matter is that most people who make a new year's resolution to drop fat go about the process alone.&nbsp; The obvious problem here is a lack of accountability that makes skipping meals, over-eating, or skipping a workout far too easy.&nbsp; When you know that there's someone who is expecting you to&nbsp;join him&nbsp;at the gym for a 6:00 AM workout, you're less likely to sleep in.&nbsp;&nbsp;Apologizing for letting someone down is more difficult than running for 30 minutes.&nbsp;</p>
<p>With the abundance of people making new year's resolutions, finding a partner shouldn't be too hard.&nbsp; If all else fails, just walk up to a friendly looking overweight face at the gym and ask if they're interested in working together with you.&nbsp; You can be new friends working on your new selves.</p>
<p><strong>3) Indulge in Fun</strong></p>
<p>Workouts have a tendency to be ominous clouds on the horizon some days - especially for a new year's resolution newbie.&nbsp; I know this personally as this evening I thought to myself, "I really don't want to go for a run."&nbsp; The easy thing would have been to stay at home, but my wife (my partner in all this - see point number 2) suggested I try something different.&nbsp; At her recommendation, I went with her to her yoga class.&nbsp; Now, I've never done a single cat pose or swan dive (in the yoga sense) in my entire life, but I thought, "Hey, that's something different - and it's not running."&nbsp; An hour later, my body was all limbered up and flexible -&nbsp;and it was fun.&nbsp; To make your workouts a little more interesting, try new things.&nbsp; If you normally run, try riding the bike.&nbsp; You might try swimming, pilates, cardio kick-boxing, or something else that isn't the normal hum-drum trot on the treadmill.</p>
<p><strong>4) Don't Starve Yourself</strong></p>
<p>Here's where the rubber really hits the road.&nbsp; People hate to be hungry - I know I sure do.&nbsp; The problem with new year's resolution "dieters" is that they haven't the foggiest clue what to do with regard to their food consumption.&nbsp; Typical diet advice that people tend to follow&nbsp;is&nbsp;eating less.&nbsp; While the basic principle is sound, just reducing the amount of food consumed&nbsp;is a certain path to failure because it creates cravings that can only be resisted for so long before the diet is abandoned.&nbsp; I've written an entire article about <a href="http://weightingon40.squarespace.com/eating-in-a-nutshell/">how to eat for dropping fat</a>, so I won't go into that here.&nbsp; I'll just say this: if you are hungry at any time during your dietary regimen, you are doing it wrong.</p>
<p><strong>5) Try Competing as a Motivation</strong></p>
<p>There are a number of body-change competitions that take off at the beginning of the calendar year that are intended to pick up the new year's resolution makers.&nbsp; Competing in such a challenge might be just the external motivation to keep you committed to a long-term pattern of better eating and healthy activity levels.&nbsp; Many of these challenge competitions have online venues in which you can participate for further accountability, advice, and venting (for those inevitable times when we feel frustrated).&nbsp; Here are a few that you can check out; see if one fits the goals that you have for yourself.</p>
<p><a href="http://bodyforlife.com/index.asp"><strong>Body-for-LIFE</strong></a> - one of the more popular fitness challenges and the one that got me started in fitness back in 2000.&nbsp; This one is hosted by EAS, a supplement company out of Colorado.&nbsp; Information on the 2009 challenge isn't on the website yet (as of 12/22/08), but the challenge has been held every year for over a decade.&nbsp; I've no reason to think 2009 will be any different.<br /><strong><a href="http://www.transformation.com">Bill Phillips Transformation Challenge</a></strong> - Bill Phillips (who originally started the Body-for-LIFE challenge) started the Great American Transformation challenge a few years ago.&nbsp; More recently, it's become simply 'Transformation'.&nbsp; An entire online community exists with the simple goal of helping as many people as possible change their lives for a healthier future.<br /><strong><a href="http://www.presidentschallenge.org/">The President's Challenge</a></strong> - if you think competing for cash and prizes isn't a very good reason to lose weight, you can do it for your country and your President.&nbsp; Participants are awarded Bronze through Gold Stars for reaching certain activity goals.&nbsp; Activity logs and tips/advice can also be found on the website.<br /><strong><a href="http://www.pfpchallenge.com/">Pound for Pound Challenge</a></strong> - This is a challenge that we can all participate in.&nbsp; For every pound you lose, the sponsors donate 10&cent; to Feeding America<span style="vertical-align: super; font-size: 60%;">TM</span>. &nbsp; You can count every pound that you lose between Dec. 15, 2008 and April 27, 2009.&nbsp; There are certain limits to the amounts you can lose (for safety reasons), but with thousands of participants nationwide, we can certainly make a difference in the lives of those who need it.</p>
<p>You can also <strong>start a Fitness Challenge in your workplace</strong>.&nbsp; I've seen this done for the last few years - several participants pay a nominal sum of money ($20 or so) to participate.&nbsp; They choose their own exercise and eating regimens, have weekly weigh-ins (privately with an on-site health manager or in a gym with someone documenting the scale weight), and generally work in pairs as a team (there's that accountability again).&nbsp; The top two teams split the money with 2/3 going to the team with the biggest percentage of weight lost and 1/3 going to the second place team.</p>
<p>A Workplace Challenge has the benefit of creating friendly competition, group comraderie, and a huge sense of accountability (there's nothing like having your competing co-workers jibbing you about eating a burger for lunch).</p>
<p>The resolution to drop fat and gain health doesn't have to be painful, daunting, or overwhelming.&nbsp; Take a few steps now to ensure success in 2009 and beyond.</p>
<p>Be well!</p>
<p>Related Article: <a href="http://weightingon40.squarespace.com/setting-goals/">Setting Goals</a></p>
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